Here's something that's just crazy, and this is so difficult to understand, but some people are just not going to heal.

What's up, guys? Welcome to the podcast. Got my favorite guest. He's so much better than Chad, Parker, and everybody else is so mad, dude.

You guys are my favorite guests, so back at you. Second week in a row, we got Bernie back in the podcast room to help answer your questions. The reason Bernie's on here is because if I have a question in my life for the last 22 years, I call Bernie and I say, hey, Burns, I've got something I'm dealing with. Can you help me? And he always delivers just what I need to hear.

It's a great thing to have for that long, and also reminds us that we get an old man. We're getting old. You got to super fox thing going on.

We're getting old. Both of us. So the format of this podcast is we answer your questions. If you have anything you want to walk through with us, and we like to say it's like we're sitting around a campfire.

Embers are dying down and you walk up and you say, hey guys, could I talk about something? Something's been on my mind, something's been bothering me, something I'm excited about.

A decision I have to make. Could I ask you? And so then we walk through it like we're around that campfire, and we talk about it as much as we can.

We're not always right. And that's okay. We're just going to tell you what the best advice we would give each other is buddies. That's what we want to give you.

Yeah, and I definitely want to recognize that we have a voice here, which I don't take lightly, and I know that Gris doesn't take lightly.

We have a voice, and there's a lot of people out there that don't have a voice. And so we want to use it in a way that comes across as very humble and curious. And really here, I know the heart of this podcast from Granger to you guys is to encourage and build you up.

And enter into your heartbreak, your suffering, your life, your challenges with you. And we want to be a voice that is that kind of positive influence for you.

Absolutely. Absolutely. So to get on this podcast, to get your question to me, email GrangerSmithPodcast at gmail.com.

Don't hesitate. Could be about anything. The only thing I really ask is make it about a phone length question, because if it gets more than that, it's harder to read.

And we'll walk through it with you. So we got the first one right here. I've got a bunch of them today.

Subject line on this one is as soon as you stop looking and says, hey, Granger. And by the way, Burns, I read this question right before it's, it's kind of interesting.

Okay. Hey, Granger. I want to start off by saying, I love music and everything you stand for. You've showed me a clear path to get closer to God. And I want to thank you for that.

My name is Abigail. I'm 20 years old. I'm from a small town in Alberta, Canada. Recently, I decided that I was not going to look for a relationship at the moment.

I wanted to work on myself and make sure that I'm truly ready for one. But of course, because I decided that, just like your song happens like that, as soon as I stopped looking, it was right in front of my face.

The guy I made an effort to see more frequently now, because he's the guy that my family wants me to be with. Now he's asking me if we can go get coffee sometime.

And I'm so stumped. Do I continue my path of self-discovery and see where it goes or talk to one of these guys? I really don't know what to do.

And my family's influence over who they want me to be with is really taken a toll on me. So here we go. This is interesting.

So she has two guys. The guy that I made an effort to see more frequently now and the guy that my family wants me to be with are saying that she'd go to coffee.

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