Here's a tough one. Do you love her?

Because if the answer is yes, if if what you felt is was love

Then her finding another guy that's good for her that makes her happy. Shouldn't bother you. Mm-hmm

Welcome back to the podcast. One of my favorite humans on the entire planet joining me today to help answer questions Bernie

Welcome back. Good to be back. How many podcasts have you been on so far with me?

The last count the person said it was like 20 something 20 Wow

This is episode one 28 so that's a good that's a good chunk. Yeah, it's good chunk. Wow

Bernie is here because he

If I was gonna trust anyone with some really important

Really important question that I had and wanted some really good advice

I'd call Bernie and I've literally been doing that for 22 years

So yeah, and the funny thing is is that we've done it for each other for that long and

What ends up happening is we kind of pass the same information back and forth

It's like I'll call you and you'll be like hey, this you know think about this thing about this

I'm like, oh yeah, and then you'll call me and I'll tell you the exact same thing back and you're like, oh, yeah

Man, you're right. Yeah, this stuff. It's so hard. I mean me and you could sit here on this on these microphones and give people advice

And we could hear their story and we could feed into them

But it's it's really hard to think of and apply that to yourself

So that's why community is so important and having wise counsel around you is so important because so many times

Even good advice givers have trouble feeding it to themselves and then even harder listening to their own advice

No, you're absolutely right and I'm not trying to put you out of a job by any means

But my hope is one day the Granger Smith podcast doesn't exist because all these people that are writing in with questions

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