128. Money & Marriage Series: Two Non-Negotiables for Building an Unbreakable Bond

The Suzanne Venker Show

Suzanne Venker

Society & Culture

4.9 • 650 Ratings

🗓️ 21 October 2021

⏱️ 20 minutes

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Summary

Suzanne discusses two money non-negotiables for having a strong marriage.

IN THIS EPISODE:

3:00 Too many modern couples entering marriage with the same mentality they had when they were dating (“yours” and “mine”)

5:00 Separate accounts cause problems in marriage

9:45 Sex differences: The difference between a husband's income and a wife’s income

11:00 Married women typically earn for different reasons (autonomy, extra spending money) than married men do

13:30 You have to be on a budget and be on the same team

13:45 If you spend more than your husband earns, you're undermining the marriage

17:30 If a wife earns significantly more than her husband, it undermines the marriage

18:00 If you want to build something together you have to think as “we”/ “ours”

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0:43.1	And now on with the show. From the magnificent Midwest, it's the Suzanne Venker Show, where men and women are equal in value, but wildly different by nature.
1:05.5	Join us here every week when we challenge the culture's hugely flawed narratives about men, women, sex, and love. From coast to
1:12.1	coast and from around the world, thank you for joining us. Okay, so some of you heard my
1:19.2	announcement several weeks ago, but I'm going to say it again for those who missed it. I won't say
1:22.7	this every time I do this, but I want to say it one more time at least. I am going to be doing a
1:27.0	money and marriage series on this podcast, and I have no say it one more time at least. I am going to be doing a money and marriage
1:27.7	series on this podcast, and I have no particular order to it. So I can't say that it will be every
1:33.2	Tuesday, for example, but this is an enormous subject that I've been meaning to address for a long time,
1:38.6	but with only one episode per week in the past, my hands were tied, which is why I'm so happy the Suzanne Banker's show is now
1:44.4	airing three episodes per week as it allows me to deliver so much more content. So this is the second
1:51.0	of what I hope will be a long series on money and marriage. Okay, today I'm going to talk about
1:57.7	the two non-negotiables for building an unbreakable bond.
2:02.2	And the reason that I phrase it that way is because I want to drill home what it is that I'm seeing over and over with my coaching clients.
2:15.3	That is such a common theme, particularly among millennial marriages,
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