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🗓️ 19 October 2021
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What are the best strategies to get people to say “Yes” to your requests in life? Acclaimed psychologist Robert Cialdini dives deep into the seven small things that make a huge impact in influencing others, as well as the difference between being influenced and being manipulated into making decisions. What are the tactics, how do they work, and how do we defend against them? This episode is jam-packed with practical advice that will make you more persuasive in life.
Known colloquially as “The Godfather of Influence,” Cialdini is a foundational expert in the science of influence and how to apply it ethically in business. His books, including Influence: Psychology of Persuasion and Pre-Suasion, have sold more than 7 million copies in 44 different languages, and he is the Regents’ Professor Emeritus of Psychology and Marketing at Arizona State University.
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0:00.0 | Joe Gerard, he was the world's greatest salesperson, according to the Guinness book of records. |
0:08.6 | He sold automobiles, Chevrolet's, for everybody who ever bought a car from him, |
0:15.2 | every month they would receive a greeting card for him, depending on the holiday that |
0:21.2 | month, and said one thing inside card. I like you, Joe Gerard. For Joe Gerard, he said that was |
0:31.6 | important. It's not just that we like people who are like us. We like people who do like us and say so. |
0:47.5 | Welcome to the Knowledge Project Podcast. I'm your host, Shane Parish. This podcast sharpens your mind by helping you master the best what other people have already figured out. |
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1:15.5 | you can join that F.S. Doh blog slash tribe. Check out the show notes for a link. Robert C.L.D. Nees here today, and man I've been looking forward to this conversation for a long time. Bob is the region's professor of psychology and marketing at Arizona State University. |
1:31.5 | He's also the author of the most influential book on the science and psychology of persuasion. Today is all about some of the ways our minds go into automatic movement. |
1:41.5 | We exist in an extraordinarily complicated environment, and to deal with that we use shortcuts. We can't be expected to analyze everything. |
1:49.5 | We don't have the time, energy, or mental capacity. So instead we use the shortcuts and rules of thumb, these heuristics to classify things and respond without thinking. |
1:58.5 | These mental shortcuts are called judgment, heuristics, and allow for simplified thinking. They work most of the time, but they also leave us open to costly mistakes. |
2:08.5 | Today in this conversation, we're going to deep dive into the seven small things that make a huge difference in influencing others and being influenced ourselves. |
2:18.5 | We talk about what they are, why they work, when they operate best, and how to defend against them in the context of an online and offline world. |
2:26.5 | When I asked Bob what we should title this episode, he said the small big. The exploration of the smallest things that you can do to make the biggest impact, and man he wasn't kidding. |
2:35.5 | This conversation is jam-packed with practical advice that will make you more persuasive and less susceptible to manipulation. It's time to listen and learn. |
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