12 Strategies to Stop Toxic People from Driving You Nuts! (Part 2)

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🗓️ 6 April 2021

⏱️ 32 minutes

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Today is part 2 of 12 Strategies to Stop Toxic People from Driving You Nuts!. 7 Focus on what’s going RIGHT more than what’s going WRONG. Gratitude, grace and giving will prevail when you focus on what you’re here to give more than what’s here to take. When someone slips through your filter but they’re still your client, especially when you have them in contract, it’s your job to follow through for them! Be the solution, not a continuation of the problem. Get back to a place of being of service. Sometimes you have to get out of your own way...this means setting your ego aside and simply doing your job. Your clients trust you to lead the way, even if they don’t verbalize this to you. They don’t know how to ask for help, but know that they crave your leadership. PROFIT is the result of your leadership and skill. 8 Know that you’re in good company. There’s not a top producing agent in the country who hasn’t had to deal with toxic people. The best ones learn from those relationships and take steps to minimize them in the future. 9 Challenge yourself to make it a game of being one step ahead until you close. Remember what you’re making to deal with the situation. Chances are you’re still making good money per hour, so put on those big girl panties and get to work! 10 Know that 9 out of 10 times, toxic people don’t mean it. Real estate is far more stressful to the average Joe or Josephine than it is to you. It’s the biggest, most serious transaction they’ve ever done. The tendency is to freak out and come unglued, NOT to become a meditative, calm Buddha. Be there for your clients even if they’re driving you crazy. They’re stressed. Have some compassion. Conclusion: You can’t pre-qualify toxic people completely out of your life and business, but you can take steps to minimize the times you deal with them. You can learn from the experiences and be inspired to generate more business so you have to tolerate less toxic prospects. Secret: Increase your skill set to protect your mindset. Your family, your bank account, your heart and soul will thank you. Schedule A Free Coaching Call Listen on iTunes Listen on Spotify Listen on Stitcher

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0:00.0	Welcome to Real Estate Coaching Radio, starring award-winning real estate coaches and number one international bestselling authors, Tim and Julie Harris.
0:21.2	Real Estate Coaching Radio is the nation's number one daily radio show for realtors
0:25.9	who demand authentic real-time coaching.
0:29.1	Get ready for fluff-free, unfiltered, full-strength honesty about what's truly working
0:34.0	to get you into action, helping others, and making money now in today's real
0:38.6	estate market.
0:39.7	Now to our hosts, Tim and Julie Harris.
0:45.4	Three, two, one, and we're back, Julie.
0:47.5	It is April the 6th.
0:50.1	And, yeah, I have had a lot of interesting coaching calls from agents all over the country today.
0:55.1	Just lots of, we were on Clubhouse this morning, just talking with a bunch of different folks.
0:59.0	I really like to have my day full of conversations that keep my mind sort of on all these different real estate markets.
1:05.7	Not just the United States.
1:06.7	We're having listeners that are, you know, certainly Clubhouse attendees. We had a gentleman from France today who, by the way, he did know your Sasha Gatry. Yeah, totally knew who he was. Sasha Guitry is Julie. He's like great, great, great uncle, and he's a super famous Parisian. And if you're from Paris specifically, you definitely know who Sasha Guitry is. But in any event. Well, it's a way from Portugal selling real estate, I think, last week.
1:30.2	And surprisingly, Portugal actually operates fairly similarly to here.
1:34.1	It does.
1:34.7	So, yeah, I mean, I think I love it too.
1:36.7	It's nice having different perspectives and different people to talk to.
1:40.3	And, you know, the listeners hopefully are borrowing best practices from other markets too.
1:45.0	It, you know, I guess the big takeaway is that everyone's experiencing a very similar seller's market all over planet Earth.
1:51.7	Yes.
1:52.1	That's the thing that's kind of very, it's interesting because that's never, I can't think of a time.
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