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Flying Free

12 Life-Changing Beliefs That Will Unhook You From Abuse Part Two [182]

Flying Free

Natalie Hoffman

Emotional, Spiritual, Narcissism, Self-improvement, Marriage, Abuse, Religion & Spirituality, Christian, Divorce, Christianity, Education

5.01.1K Ratings

🗓️ 2 August 2022

⏱️ 42 minutes

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Summary

“I’ve got to share this with as many people as possible.” That’s what I decided when Amie showed me her thought work from Flying Higher. What the heck is “thought work”? Well, I’ll answer your question with a question. How often do you have the same thoughts? You know, the crappy ones. “Nothing will ever change. If I could just get him to see how much he’s hurting me. I have to wait for God to move; I can’t do anything about this. I need someone to come rescue me. I’m trapped. I’ll never heal.” What if you had new beliefs that led to new emotions and new actions and an ENTIRE NEW LIFE? I’m not blowing smoke up your tailpipe. The truth is: You could have all your problems solved right now, and you’d still be stuck if your thoughts didn’t change too. And they don’t on their own. Our beliefs keep us in abuse. It’s only our beliefs that can free us. Thought work is the simple way to break free. Want some clear evidence? I recorded three episodes’ worth—Amie’s story. It’s incredible, and one of many in the Sisterhood. In Part 2 of 3: - Old Thought: I help God change people with my words/actions. - Old Thought: Conversations should lead to a resolution and common ground. - Old Thought: If you love me, you’ll be there for me. - Old Thought: Giving sex to make my husband happy is right and good. - Old Thought: When people are angry with me, I HAVE to make it right. - 5 of Amie’s New Thoughts (these were AMAZING; why do you think I couldn’t stop recording for two hours?) - Bonus New Thought #1: Pushing people to change is abusive in its own way. - Bonus New Thought #2: We can’t expect people to respect our boundaries. - Bonus New Thought #3: Christian culture is codependent. - The FREE PDF DOWNLOAD for old thoughts vs. new thoughts Listen or download the transcript at flyingfreenow.com/182 FREE: I'll send you the first chapter of my book, Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage. Just hop on my mailing list at flyingfreesisterhood.com/free-download. (I will NEVER spam you or sell your information.) Desperate for real help and safe people who understand what you're going through? Find out about my online education and support program for women of faith at joinflyingfree.com And, if you are an already divorced Christian woman who wants to take back her life and get healthy, have amazing relationships, build a business or career, or even find a good man - check out joinflyinghigher.com

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0:00.0

Hi, this is Natalie Hoffman of Flying Free Now, and you're listening to the Flying Free

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podcast, a support resource for women of faith, looking for hope and healing from hidden

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emotional and spiritual abuse.

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Welcome to episode 182 of the Flying Free Podcast.

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Today we are going to dig into our interview that we started last week with Amy and as I had mentioned last week but if you're

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brand new you might not have known this but I have this amazing interview

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with this beautiful human being and it was two hours long and I didn't want to cut any

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of it out it's so so good and so I decided to just split it up into three podcast episodes. So last week 181 was part one. This week 182 is part

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two and then next week 183 will be part three and before we begin though and

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it's just so when we start it's going to you know awkwardly just dive right

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back into where we left off last week so I apologize for that but that's the nature of the

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beast but before we begin I want to just let you know that the reboot your life

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after divorce what it's like a workshop or a camp or whatever.

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It's open now.

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And if you go to Flying Free Sisterhood.com,

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forward slash reboot, you can can register so what it is is five days of

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getting together with me for 90 minutes every day starting August 29th through

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September 2nd.

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It's going to be from 11 o'clock AM Central Standard Time to 1230 PM Central Standard Time.

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And what we're going to do is spend five days together where I'm going to teach you some concepts and then

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I'm going to bring some of you on, whoever wants to, can come on and get some live coaching.

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So based on whatever the concept is that we're going to learn that day.

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