Stepdad cheats on I a 26 year old man found her a 28 year old woman's TikTok after we went on a date

This is honestly not something I expected to post about

But here's the thing I've known this woman for a while since we are in the same friend groups

She's a nice person attractive and, I've always enjoyed my talks with

her. A few weeks ago, I asked her out on a date. I figured if she says no, it's fine, but she actually

agreed. We went on a date this past Saturday and honestly, I thought it was awesome. We went out to

dinner, had drinks, spent the rest of the night talking,

and we even took a walk on a walking bridge over the town's lake. It's not a big one. I dropped her

off and was elated. I absolutely loved the night. However, that night when I was scrolling

through TikTok on my bed, a post from her, I didn't follow nor knew she had a TikTok at that point, appeared on my for you page.

Essentially, she said in the video, getting ready for a date, I really don't want to go on.

That was like a bucket of ice water being thrown on my head.

I was so freaking happy and I just found

out she didn't even want to go on a date with me. Don't get me wrong. I'm not saying she has to

want it, but please let me know if that's the case. We don't need to go out. We can forget I even

asked her out. But doing this, on the internet, it made me self self-conscious i'm not sure if that's the right

word now i'm unsure about what to do should i tell her i saw this or just forget about it honestly

it really hurt me and i'm not really sure i want to give this another try i mean she didn't want to go

out of me in the first place. Right?

Wow, that is a really, really tough situation. But without further ado, let's get into the update. This was posted just a week later.

Hello everyone. Some people have reached out to me through comments or chats asking for an update on the situation.

Sadly, there isn't much to share at the

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