Welcome to another episode of Out of the Pods. I'm deep tea and I'm Natalie. Okay, so before we

pressed record on this podcast, deep tea and I were talking about slow burn relationships.

Like I think we have different definitions. Like a slow burn to me is when two people are

like they got over the initial attraction and they're just like slowly building this emotional

connection but you think it's something different. Yeah, I mean a burn is like you're you're

burning the bridge almost like so it's like a slow burn. So you slowly start to ghost a little

you start to talk less and less and less and you slowly burn the bridge and you're like goodbye.

That's how I think about it. Is that not I think that's right. No, I think it's my definition. I

think it's when two people or like two people in a relationship they're like they're

trapped for each other. No, it's it means like a candle like a slow burn which means

it's going to build steadily over time. Okay, the fact that you just said a candle, think about it.

It's slowly burning away. That's what that's what it means. It's slowly burning into

dissipation. Wait, let me let me Google this. Okay, fine. Slow burn. I don't think Google is

always has the right answers. Oh my gosh. So Google says slow burn is a state of slowly mounting

anger or annoyance. See me hold on. Define slow burn in love. Look at our dictionary. Oh,

I don't know if there's urban dictionary for this, but this source book right says a slow burn

is when romantic attraction between characters build slowly over the course of a novel or series.

Slow burns can appear in all kinds of fictions, but romance is renowned for it. Okay, that was

that was too much info, but I feel like my definition is correct, but do you like

do you like slow burns or like this immediate like the fireworks attraction?

Sometimes I feel like when you have the firework attraction, it dissipates over time,

but it's like very intense and heavy. And sometimes it stays, I don't know, but I sometimes I

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