#118 - Recovering From Infidelity: How To Heal Your Relationship After An Affair
Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
4.6 • 849 Ratings
🗓️ 29 January 2018
⏱️ 72 minutes
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Summary
How Do You Get Over An Affair?
I know it sounds hard to believe, but you can heal after infidelity, and stay together. You may not ever "get over" an affair, but you can certainly heal your relationship. It is also possible to rebuild the trust after infidelity.
However.... getting past infidelity is an active process, for both partners. Time alone does not heal an affair. You cannot just "get over" infidelity. After you've been betrayed, you can't just flip a switch and put the past in the past, and trust your partner again. But you can heal, and you can trust again... when you're both doing the work of recovery, together.
Real Advice For Rebuilding Trust and Security, After An Affair
On this episode of the Love, Happiness and Success Podcast, I'm sharing the ten crucial steps that every couple must take in order to repair their relationship after infidelity. I hope that this discussion creates a road-map for you to follow, as you work to reclaim your relationship, your trust, and your sense of security after an affair.
With love and respect,
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| 0:00.0 | This is Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, and you're listening to the Love, Happiness, and Success Podcast. That is a band called L.A. Witch with their song Brian. |
| 0:30.4 | Self-titled album, I think it came out last year, but amazing album from an amazing band. |
| 0:37.2 | And I wanted to include it today for our |
| 0:40.2 | podcast because the song and really the whole album is, I think, of course, through my filter, |
| 0:47.9 | about somebody really struggling in relationships, possibly more than one, but in that kind of madness sort of |
| 1:00.0 | phase where it feels a little out of control and kind of heartbreaking and their journey |
| 1:07.4 | to detaching emotionally and kind of finding themselves again and not not participating |
| 1:17.0 | in the hurt any longer is kind of what I what I take from the album in its entirety and |
| 1:22.5 | and I thought it was good for today because today we're talking about something pretty hard. |
| 1:30.9 | We're going to be talking about how to repair your relationship after infidelity. |
| 1:39.7 | And if you are in this place right now listening to this podcast, you might appreciate that |
| 1:46.1 | album. Again, check it out, L.A. Witch. It's dark. It's moody. It's a little intense. But if you |
| 1:52.4 | are struggling with the emotional pain and confusion and anger around betrayal, it might be |
| 1:58.9 | extremely satisfying to listen to really loud. So anyway, check it out. |
| 2:04.8 | So yeah, so today on the show, we are going to be talking about affairs and fidelity, betrayal, |
| 2:11.9 | and how to fix your relationship after that and also kind of put yourself back together after such a thing. |
| 2:19.8 | I thought it was a timely topic because we're getting a lot of couples coming into our practice |
| 2:26.7 | lately who have been struggling with that and I've been getting a lot of questions from my |
| 2:32.8 | darling listeners on that topic, |
| 2:35.4 | just, you know, kind of reaching out in this place of pain and like, what do I do? |
| 2:39.4 | So I thought I would put together a show on this topic for you today. |
| 2:45.1 | And so before we jump in, if you have not listened to this show before, hello, I am glad you're here. |
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