Your anxious attachment and the fact that you have not

mastered detachment is ruining everything for you.

So in this podcast I am going to go into five signs that you are still anxiously attached,

despite having done the work, despite having seen the videos, despite having done it all.

And today, if you are watching, I am not in my car. Girlfriend is at home. This is a wild moment.

Maybe we will get more gems out of me. Gems, more diamonds, more low-key, down-to-earth conversation.

Here's my coffee. Here's my list that I always have ready to go, and I'm ready to dive into this topic.

I think there are five major signs that I thought of, and I thought this conversation is important to have,

because we have touched the surface of attachment and what anxious attachment means.

And I think before we go into why it's so important to master the art of detachment,

I think it's important to say why it's so attractive to the universe and to other human beings.

When you exemplify in relationships the art of detachment and being detached as opposed to anxious attachment

to somebody, you are giving them the gift of ultimate freedom to be themselves.

When somebody is anxiously attached, we often see it in the media or amongst ourselves when we talk as something that is quite

adorable and cute. It is not adorable and cute. You are putting everything in that

relationship onto the person that is the target of your affection. If they don't call you in

time, you get upset. If they don't validate you, you're not happy. If they don't return

your call in a certain time frame,

you're not loving it. And everything matters. When somebody gives you the gift of detachment in a

relationship, it is not cold, it is not aloof, it is not a horrible thing. It is a letter of acceptance

for you to be exactly, come as you are, said Kirk Cabain. Come as you are. And I will accept you

for what you say you are and what you show me you are, not what my anxious attachment has taught

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