Hello, lovely humans. I'm Wylee, and this is part two of Puyah's episode. A quick note, we do talk about poppers and lovers. I want to remind all of you that I encourage legal activity. But if you choose to make your own choices, I hope those choices include a lot of

research because we need you. You're helping make the world a sexier place. Please stay safe.

When you ask about if you're into butt stuff, you already asking about things.

Not everyone also considers butt stuff kinky. And so what I'm realizing, too, is it's not usually a good question

or it's not usually a very informative question to say, are you kinky or not? Because most people

that I talk to say, no, I'm not really kinky, but I'm just into choking and collars and dominance

and submission and a little bit of power play and just some like rough sex.

And I'm like, okay, but you're not kinky got it. Okay, okay. Maybe it's still not thinking.

We all get such different labels and maybe we think kinky has to mean a very specific thing and we

just don't know. And so I want to create kind of a better way of finding what our common

assumptions are.

The point is you still are into English language.

Sometimes when you are across different languages, it gets very more complicated.

Because she can't even tell you if she's hinky.

Right.

But if we were to take this idea of signals, of language barrier crossing signals, you know, and of course we would,

of course you would have to come up with something different for someone who doesn't have the ability to squeeze a wrist or doesn't, you know, you have to find the different signals that work

for each body, for each human being. But, but I think that that's such a beautiful start.

So my question to you, because I actually last summer wrote a whole book that

is my next thing to publish curious questions to ask your next lover, where I was like,

okay, here's how I would do it, health and safety. Like I wrote a whole book. It's too long. I haven't

published it yet. But what I realized, giving it to some of my friends to try out is they were like, yeah, I don't get through the whole it's like so many questions. And so it's, I see it as sort of a lifelong thing or I might make

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