Hello, love the humans. I'm Yow Lee and you are listening to sex stories, a

podcast where it's safe to celebrate our sexy selves and share all kinds of

dirty details in an effort to replace

judgment and shame and blame with curiosity, compassion, and deep listening so that we

may all lead better laid lives. Our guest today is a bisexual African American woman in her 40s.

She's a switch, she's into Shabari, and isn't Japanophile, so can you say the other word, the proper word?

Kimbaku B.

Also she's into strength, sadomasochism, spanking.

She's partnered currently with a man,

a U.S. professional working in government government from Texas currently living in the UK.

Welcome, Jez.

Hello.

Thank you for having.

So excited to dive into everything.

So excited to have you here.

If you had to rate yourself on a sexual shame of meter

now with one being shameless, ten being super full of shame,

where do you fall today? I would say probably about an eight. Okay. That's actually

really high. I know that's really high. Can you tell us a little bit why?

Yeah, I grew up in the Bible Belt.

So there's like loads of stuff that comes with that.

Yeah, so in my childhood I was very quiet and that happened. I think my mom said I stopped talking.

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