11 Red Flags of Narcissistic People

The Narcissists' Code

Lee Hammock

Health & Fitness, Mental Health

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🗓️ 7 June 2025

⏱️ 20 minutes

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11 Red Flags of Narcissistic People you might have missed.

I'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions

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0:00.0	Come on in here, y'all. Come on in here. Today we're talking about red flags of narcissists and toxic people that you might have missed, that you may have missed, that may have skirted past you, skipped past you with their narcissistic little red flag legs, right? That's what we're talking about today. Y'all. If you knew here, my name is Lee Hammack. I'm a diagnosed narcissist. And I give you the perspective, an inner look at the mind of a narcissistist. Right. So today we're talking about red flags. Literally, the red flags of narcissistic people, toxic people. And not every single person that you're dealing with will exude. We'll have these red flags, y'all. Let me say that right there. Not every single person that you're dealing with will exude we'll we'll have these red flags y'all let me say
0:38.7	that right there not every single person is going to have these red flags and be super as I say
0:46.7	red flaggy you know I say that all the time red flaggy so the first red flag that you might
0:53.6	have missed that you may have missed oh that may be going on right now which is flag that you might have missed, that you may have missed, oh, that may be going on right now, which is somebody that you're seeing, right? The first red flag that I'm going to talk about is they listen to you and don't talk back. Well, Lee, you got to shut the hell up. How is listening to you, but not talking back a red flag? A lot of narcissists are very analytical people, which means they like to analyze the people that they're with. They like to analyze the people that they are around. They like to, you see what I'm saying? They like to take in as much information as possible. They're information gatherers.
1:29.7	So if I'm trying to gather information, I'm going to listen and let you talk.
1:34.1	It says, so I can love bomb you.
1:36.0	So if you're dealing with a person who is not sharing information with you,
1:39.5	but getting all the information from you, that could be, oh, yay, that could be a red flag, right?
1:49.0	Sitting quietly once you've made the house all shiny. Down time can be just fine, plain bangers
1:55.0	from the 90s. Tea break. Lunch break. Maybe listen to the outbreak. Sometimes it's not time for some tombola right
2:03.0	It's enjoying lasagna time
2:05.2	chilling with a book time
2:06.9	Or time to visit your nan time
2:09.0	Go on
2:09.9	Play some other time
2:11.1	Put your phone down
2:12.3	Tombola
2:13.2	Open for fun
2:14.9	Terms apply 18 plus
2:16.6	Gambleaware.org.
2:19.6	Barclay's ready-made investments.
2:21.7	The clue's in the name.
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