Alain is a dom into bsdm and he runs a high end NYC sex party and he called in to talk all. About it. Tune in to hear all the details including his first memories of being a dom and being into being a sadist, what being a sadist is all about and what he loves about it, his first sexual experiences out of the gate and how they were very unconventional, when he started bringing his dom side into his relationships and what would go down, how and why he hated the bdsm clubs he went to early, how he would figure out if women were into being a sub or not, how he’s always identified as hetero and how he’s currently wanting to be more fluid and what he’s doing about it, how and why he tried being pegged for first time recently and how he felt about it, the bdsm party he attended that inspired him to start his own after party, how and why he started vetting out “takers” and how that changed the whole vibe of his parties, the sub he dated who helped him start and run its sex parties and how their relationship was set up, how he enjoyed training her to deep throat and what he loves so much about deep throating, the workshops they have at his sex parties and the kind of stuff they teach people, how more people have sex now at his parties then when he first started, how far he gets domming someone and the extreme things he’s into including, caning, deep throating, drool, drinking pee and more, how and why he decided to shut down his party for a few years and why he eventually decided to start it up again, the process of vetting people for his party and what you have to go through to get , the rules they have including the mandatory sti testing, the whole vibe of his party and ow and why that’s what has made his parties so successful plus a whole lot more. HIS NYC PARTY https://www.topfloorclub.com/ **To see a pic of ALAIN plus see pics of my female guests + gain access to my PRIVATE Discord channel where people get super XX naughty + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [email protected] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get the first month FREE https://www.dipseastories.com/strictlyanon Hear the hottest stories on Dipsea 30-day FREE TRIAL  https://butterwellness.com/ Get 20% off your The Perineum Massager by Butter Wellness. Go to butterwellness.com and use the code “STRICTLY” at checkout for 20$ off your entire order https://viia.co/STRICTLYANON Try VIIA! and use code STRICTLYANON! For great SEX and sleep https://beducate.me/anonymous2025 Use code anonymous To get an additional 10% off the campaign’s current discount - that’s 60% off Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices