Lexi Silver called in to discuss opening up your relationship, swinging, being upfront about your kinks and fetishes and more. Tune in to hear all the details including how to you bring up your secret desires with your partner, how and why you need to first release the shame about what you’re secretly into, how and why role-playing is great way to bring your kinks up, the thing most people fear when thinking about being honest about what they’re into, how over communication is key to being successful when it comes to opening things up, how and why going to a swingers club and not doing anything is a great first step, what goes down at a swingers club and what to expect, how you have to speak up for yourself and how important it is for your partner to receive it, the rules that should be in place when first swinging, how any kind of previous baggage can and will get in the way, the top questions about non-monogamy she gets and the answers to them plus a whole lot more. You can find more advice and work with her here: https://lexisylver.com **To see HOT pics of LEXI plus my other female guests + gain access to my PRIVATE Discord channel where people get super XX naughty + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast use code: CF2F4 for 25% off your annual membership. Discount runs until 12/31 To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [email protected] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://viiahemp.com/ Have a great sleep AND great sex with VIIA Hemp Gummies used code: STRICTLYANON for 15% off https://bluechew.com/ Get 15% OFF Blewchew plus first month FREE use code STRICTLYANON https://www.dipseastories.com/strictlyanon Hear the hottest stories on Dipsea 30-day FREE TRIAL  https://butterwellness.com/ Get 20% off your The Perineum Massager by Butter Wellness. Go to butterwellness.com and use the code “STRICTLY” at checkout for 20$ off your entire order https://beducate.me/anonymous40 Get BEDucated! For 40% off PLUS a FREE 24-hour trial, click the link and use code: anonymous Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices