Hey Jim Daley here. If you like the focus on the family broadcast and haven't

grown tired of this voice just yet, you'll love my ReFocus podcast. On ReFocus I

take a deeper dive with a respected thinker on different aspects of culture. I

ask those hard questions that maybe they don't get that often and I don't

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today. I heard a phrase that describes how marriage can really kind of go to

the next level and that is that marriage isn't a 50-50 deal. You give 50% and

your spouse gives 50%. We're each called to give 100% to the relationship. So

what do you do if your spouse isn't pulling their full 100%? We'll talk about

that today. I'm John Fuller along with Aaron and Greg Smolley. They lead the

focus marriage department here and Jim Daley spoke with pastor Kevin Thompson. He

has some wonderful tips on improving your relationship and here. Kevin addressed

the importance for total commitment from both spouses. Let me ask you. We're three

guys sitting at the table here and we've talked about the roof quite a bit that

idea of intimacy. I like the fact that you're positioning that in such a way that

the structure is partner and friendship is the foundation again because sometimes

I think we as men and I want to represent the female thought at this table in this

moment, just knowing my wife, Gene Well enough, you don't build the walls on top of

the roof. So meaning intimacy, physical intimacy. So I think speak to that

aspect, how do we make sure that we're building the partnership walls strong so

that the rooftop goes on and the partnership can hold the roof up that rooftop of

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