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Subject, one husband, three men. Dear Stephen Shirley, I've been married for 12 years and I have cheated on my husband for the past five years.

Five years.

My husband is a bit older than I am and he can't always satisfy me like he used to.

So I got addicted to stepping out on him.

The thrill of the affair is what excited me at first.

But then when I realized my husband no longer cared,

it became part of my lifestyle. I just turned 45, and I think I am going through a midlife crisis

because one man isn't enough, and I like them young. I am not sleeping around, though. I have two

consistent men on the side that I have sex with.

I didn't want any parts of an older man anymore, so one of my side men is 35, and the other one is 29, and he is my hairstylist.

The 35-year-old just got married, and his wife is bipolar and won't take her medicine

so he wasn't getting any sex at home. The 29-year-old is my baby and he's very special because I have

taught him a lot. I taught him how to save money, decorate his place and how to properly make love to a

grown woman. He is the one that is falling for me,

and I am very fond of him. But if I got divorced, he wouldn't be my first choice, the 35-year-old

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