#1 Divorce Judge Exposes Cheaters, Liars & How to Know if it’s Love or a Lie | Judge Lynn Toler - PT 2

Women of Impact

Impact Theory

Society & Culture, Relationships, Education

4.8 • 701 Ratings

🗓️ 30 October 2025

⏱️ 45 minutes

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Part 2 In Part 2 of this powerful Women of Impact conversation, Lisa Bilyeu and Judge Lynn Toler turn their attention to the crossroads of staying, leaving, and starting over. Judge Lynn shares her strategies for staying calm in the face of deep disrespect, the art of navigating difficult conversations, and the emotional intelligence tactics that have kept her grounded in and out of court. This half dives into the psychology behind why people don’t leave unhappy relationships… from fear of change and financial insecurity to the hope things might get better and the social myths that hold women hostage. Judge Lynn reveals what truly makes or breaks a partnership, why couples should treat their marriage like a business, and her personal journey of loss and resilience following 34 years of marriage. Here's exactly what we dive into: The power of giving voice to your emotions… at the DMV, and beyond Reading people in court: The dance of emotional intelligence How women lose confidence and identity in relationships The “us against the problem” mindset How to safely exit abusive relationships What happens after Divorce Court: Stories of hope and healing The compatibility test: Questions every couple should ask before marrying Why understanding men (and women) is key for deeper compassion The secret to Judge Lynn’s lasting marriage Peace Over Violence helps women get out of dangerous relationships: https://www.peaceoverviolence.org/ Thank you to our sponsors: Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Macy’s: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co True Classic: Upgrade your wardrobe at https://trueclassic.com/impact Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Found Banking: Sign up for Found for FREE today at https://found.com/lisa Follow Judge Lynn Toler: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RealJudgeLynn Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realjudgelynnii FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:32.5	What up my homie?
0:33.6	Welcome back to part two with the unstoppable beast of a woman, Judge Lynn Toller. Now yesterday, we called out the freaking chaos, why we stay too long in relationships, why we shrink and make ourselves small, and why we silence ourselves in toxic relationships. Now, if any of that sounds familiar, we don't just talk about why, we talk about how to overcome it. So you're going to want to go back and listen to that if you haven't. But today, we're actually stepping into our freaking power.
0:57.2	Because this isn't just about who lied or who's left, right? It's not about just the toxic X. It's about how you freaking rebuild when your confidence is shot and your heart feels like it's a damn war zone because I'm telling you it's okay to fall it's okay to feel those moments where
1:12.6	you are on your knees but you know what feels like it's a damn war zone. Because I'm telling you, it's okay to fall. It's okay to feel
1:11.9	those moments where you were on your knees. But you know what? Ladies, you've got to get up.
1:18.1	But the question is how? So that's what we talk about today. Today we go over how to fight for
1:23.4	your marriage without actually losing yourself in the process. We talk about the moment that
1:27.6	Judge Lynn stopped placating and started teaching a husband how to actually treat her.
1:32.1	That was a fascinating insight. And then we go into the truth about what it takes to come back
1:36.4	from grief. And if you're the person that used to be in a relationship, but there's so much
1:40.1	heartache, this part you're going to want to listen to because we talk about the truth about
1:44.3	what it takes to come back from grief, betrayal or just feeling like you disappeared in a relationship.
1:49.9	Ladies, ladies, women of impact is all about building your confidence.
1:53.7	And with that, it takes skill sets.
1:56.6	It takes you to actually take action to then change the way you feel about yourself. It's not going
2:02.3	to happen overnight. It's not just going to happen to listen to one podcast. It's going to be like
2:06.5	constant training and that's why you're here and women of impact. I have made it my mission to deliver
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