I am the man sick with the slang sick and I'm destined for fame

through for the fan not for the grand stunt near destined for pain

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y'all gonna remember the name

what's up ladies and gentlemen boys and girls around the world I would like to welcome you back to the

real talk with

Zubi podcast. Now on today's episode we've got on Pat Stedman and he is a

professional dating and relationship coach so welcome to the show man.

It's good to be here, Subi.

Thanks for having me on.

That's an absolute pleasure.

So how did you get into the world of dating and relationship coaching?

Because that's a very unique

very unique profession right there so tell us your story.

Yeah so just in brief I mean about a decade, I didn't know what I was doing with women.

I just got out of a serious relationship.

Thought that was pretty much the end for me.

Didn't think I'd ever end up with a girl like that, a girl like an attractive girl again.

And then I fell into the game like a lot of other people got into a lot of pickup stuff

and then gradually that got more nuanced over time.

So I started to borrow from people who were talking a lot more

about authenticity and then even like playing around

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