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Preacher Boys Podcast

075: Break These Chains | Diana Winkler's Escape from the Trap of Abuse

Preacher Boys Podcast

Eric Skwarczynski

Documentary, Society & Culture, Religion & Spirituality, True Crime, Christianity

4.6701 Ratings

🗓️ 23 September 2020

⏱️ 88 minutes

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Summary

Singer, Songwriter, Empowerment Speaker, and Domestic Violence Advocate, Diana Winkler, states that her directive and mission are strong, but simple: Not just to entertain, but to offer a musical safe haven. Her story, behind the lyrics, is one that has led her to embrace individuals who have been trapped in the "behind closed doors" subject of abuse. Diana’s artistic journey began when she was a young child. While growing up, she was involved in various forms of the Arts, which included theatre, choir and dance. Diana felt that she had been created to cultivate these gifts to serve others. When attending Bible College in Fairfax, VA, Diana received formal voice and piano training. Her studies also focused on overseas missions and church music. Diana also used her language skills to minister to the Hispanic community. It was during this period of time that the vision of a music ministry began to take form within her. Armed with education, experience and an invigorated passion for music, Diana began to make a name for herself within the local music community. Diana’s musical expression of classical and traditional church worship music was best known for the blend of a deep, low range and soaring high notes. Throughout the upcoming years, she led various worship teams as a lead vocalist, choir director, church pianist, and also used her abilities to teach voice to aspiring students. Her skills and passion for local and global ministries enabled her to be part of church planting in Pennsylvania, New Jersey, Virginia and Arizona, along with serving in the countries of Puerto Rico and Canada. But all was not well with Diana. She was someone who had become a victim of verbal and emotional abuse. She describes her despair, "I felt like I was trapped, and none of the options in front of me were very good ones. So, for a long time, I stayed." This kind of darkness was changing Diana from the inside out. Her life as a Christian musicianary was beautiful and she blessed many others, yet all the while, the feelings of emptiness, depression and hopelessness in her personal life began to take its toll. Diana says, “I woke up one morning more depressed than I have been in my whole life. I could not imagine bearing another year in this prison. I cried out to God, and said, ' I can't live like this anymore. I am willing to take whatever consequences are for leaving this situation, but I am getting out before it destroys me'.” She knew that God had a plan for her life, and held on to that promise. Through much prayer and supplication, Diana decided to leave. This was one of the hardest, but necessary decisions she had ever made. Today, having been blessed with her current musician husband, Brian, Diana finds herself in the midst of the ministry that had been part of her early dreams. Residing in the Phoenix Metro area, Diana and Brian are writing original songs that have been birthed from her experiences. “This new project, which includes original songs and cover tunes, is a collection of music to educate, empower and encourage those who are going through and have survived domestic violence, both physical and emotional.”, exclaims Diana. This compilation is a mix of genres from blues, jazz, flamenco and country influences, taking a different direction from her first CD, Classic Favorites. Diana is working to increase awareness of domestic violence within her church and community through public speaking and sharing her music at many churches and local events. “Diana has a willing, sweet heart and a beautiful voice that complements her personality. She has been a valuable added member to our arts and worship team here at FBC Scottsdale.”, says Jessie Young, Director of Fine Arts, First Baptist Church, Scottsdale. Diana has recently partnered with Mending The Soul Ministries, a faith-based small group program for those healing from abuse. "This is a top notch, organized program, that I am proud to serve with. It has helped so many... This episode is sponsored by/brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/PreacherBoys and get on your way to being your best self. Our Sponsors: * Use promo code preacherboys at the link below to get an exclusive 60% off an annual plan: https://incogni.com/preacherboys Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/preacher-boys-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0

Trigger Warning. This podcast contains descriptions of various abusive situations. Listener discretion is advised.

0:08.7

You are listening to the Preacher Boys podcast, a podcast shedding light on decades of mental, physical, and sexual abuse within the independent, fundamental Baptist movement.

0:19.5

The testimonies shared on this podcast are told from

0:22.4

the personal experience and perspective of the survivors. Not all legal outcomes are known or final.

0:28.9

Any suspect is presumed innocent until proven guilty in the court of law.

0:33.2

To find more information about the Preacher Boys podcast and upcoming upcoming documentary visit preacherboys doc.com

0:40.5

or connect on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter with the handle at Preacher Boys Doc. Now, here is your

0:47.9

host, Eric Squarsensky. Here, everybody, welcome back to the Preacher Boys podcast. I'm so excited to have Diana on today's show.

0:56.8

Diana, can you just introduce yourself to my audience and let them know just a little bit about you?

1:01.9

Yes, hi. My name is Diana Winkler, and my ministry is DSW Ministries. I'm a singer-songwriter,

1:10.4

speaker, and domestic violence advocate. I was an

1:14.7

IFB church planner for 13 years. I'm also a survivor. I'm very passionate about helping people

1:22.7

to heal from domestic violence, abuse, and trauma. Perfect. So what was your kind of introduction to the

1:32.3

independent Baptist world and maybe just give us a little bit of background of maybe your first

1:36.2

exposure to the IFB in general? So unlike your other guests, I was not raised IFB. I was raised Catholic. I came from what you would call a normal family. I would not have called it an abusive family, but certainly not perfect. I'm the oldest of four children. And then two step siblings are added when my dad remarried when I was 14. Now I knew my

2:04.8

parents love me although they're strict. I was taught right from wrong. We were disciplined for

2:12.1

major infringements like stealing, lying, almost setting the woods on fire. Minor stuff, we were grounded.

2:22.6

I went to Catholic school up to the fourth grade in Pennsylvania. So I knew Jesus. I knew he loved me.

2:31.3

I knew I was a sinner and I knew he died for me on the cross for my sins.

2:37.5

I did all the sacraments. If those listening don't know much about the Catholic religion,

2:44.2

it's basically a tradition-based work salvation. I tried to be a good Catholic, but in all honesty, I never knew for sure that

2:55.6

if I would die, if I would have gone to heaven. We moved to Arizona when I was 10 years old.

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