#074: To Stay Or Go - Solo Episode

The Mark Groves Podcast

Mark Groves

Education, Relationships, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.9 • 5K Ratings

🗓️ 24 February 2020

⏱️ 36 minutes

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Summary

What happens when you wake up and realize you aren’t happy in your relationship? What if you feel like you’re outgrowing your partner? What if you’re outgrowing your old life? As we go deeper in our journey toward our inner truth we often find that our old patterns, habits and relationships need to shift. This can bring up a lot of anxiety and tension especially if we have had codependent patterns. Part of our healing is learning how to honour our growth while navigating our relationship with others. Part of our healing is leaning into the discomfort and uncertainty that comes up when we let our relationships shift, change and maybe even end.

Discover:

Emotion is the currency of the future
The success of your life will be determined by the quality of your relationships
What does it mean to be a real man?
How do you stay when enough is enough?
Are you willing to dismantle your identity?

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0:00.0	Welcome to another episode of the Mark Grove's podcast.
0:12.8	Coming at you solo this week with some thoughts about some of the things I'm thinking about
0:18.0	and navigating and I've been getting a lot of questions about how do I decide to stay
0:23.8	or go or when is the right time to leave and how do I know if I've done the work or not?
0:33.2	Gosh that's a very layered question.
0:35.3	It's a tough question because there's so many things that impact that and there's no
0:40.4	right way, there's only your way.
0:44.0	I think that just invites this truth that a lot of us avoid or are afraid of which is
0:49.7	you are really the authority of your life, you get to decide your life and I heard
0:54.1	someone say the other day that I'm just going from each best next decision to each
1:00.3	a best next decision and I love that because you can't get too far ahead if you live in
1:06.8	the future of what's possible you miss out what's present and if you live in the past
1:11.5	of what's happened you are not getting to be alive and awake and aware of all the things
1:17.2	that are going on right now.
1:19.5	So you know this idea of let the past be the past, let the future bring what it may and
1:24.2	let me handle today's business.
1:27.1	So today's business is about getting to know what is true.
1:32.0	So many of us are not connected to the actual truths of our lives.
1:36.3	My dad used to say this to me, he still says it too, that very few people are actually
1:43.5	capable of doing an accurate audit of their own lives of who they are of how they show
1:48.9	up.
1:49.9	And I think that's because we're afraid of the shame of the truth.
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