047. How To Take Back Control And Unf*ck Your Life

Bedros Keuilian Podcast Show

Bedros Keuilian

Self-improvement, Education

5 • 2.2K Ratings

🗓️ 22 August 2023

⏱️ 38 minutes

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Summary

In my latest episode, I discuss the real reason that has been holding men back. And about the lies, the systems, and the false narratives that have been fed to us.

Most men today have been conditioned to be passive, accept mediocrity, and drown in their own self-pity. The opposition doesn't want you to be an extraordinary human. They want you to stay average.

If that speaks to you or someone you know, understand this: It's not your fault you've been conditioned this way. But it IS your fault if you decide to stay conditioned. You see, the average man inspires no one. And you and I have a duty and an obligation to break out of the conformities of the norm.

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0:00.0	And at some point, you have to become an active and willing participant in the saving of your own ass.
0:08.5	Welcome to the Bedro's Cooling Show.
0:12.0	You're feeling lost, hopeless, and maybe just feels like life is passing you by. I'm here to tell you that I can relate.
0:33.0	I want to tell you guys a story about a time, well, one of the many times that I got fired.
0:38.0	This place was called Broadway Bagel. And Broadway Bagel was on Balboa Island just off the coast of Newport Beach.
0:46.0	It's a tiny little island with multi-million dollar homes, yachts, and you know, I don't know, maybe two dozen stores.
0:53.0	And this particular store that I worked in was a bagel shop, right? Like a little cafe.
0:59.0	And I forget the reason why I got fired. Who cares? I was obviously meant to be an entrepreneur.
1:05.0	So it makes sense that I was fired. But when I got fired from there, I felt like my whole life was crashing around me.
1:13.0	Because right around that time, also, I got out of a relationship with this girl who I liked, who I thought I loved, but was also bad for me.
1:24.0	I also knew like we weren't good for each other, right?
1:27.0	And so now I no longer have a relationship. So I feel alone. I just lost my job, my source of income.
1:35.0	And I find myself having to move in because I had a roommate at the time.
1:40.0	And so the following month, I had to move in back with my parents. And that was not a good feeling, guys.
1:46.0	And I really felt like somehow like my life was fucked, right? And I was thinking like, man, I feel lost.
1:54.0	I feel hopeless. I feel like there's nothing more that I could do. I keep losing jobs.
2:01.0	And then what ended up happening is the more I began to focus on what I don't have, the deeper I got into despair, into depression, into self-pity.
2:14.0	In fact, I remember the day that I got fired from that job, because they didn't just call me at home and tell me I'm fired.
2:22.0	They actually fired me. When I get fired, I get fired on the spot.
2:26.0	And they fired me. And I was so down on myself that on the drive back home to Anaheim.
2:33.0	And that's about a 35, 45 minute drive from Balboa Island.
2:37.0	And I stopped at three fast food restaurants because I've told you this in previous episodes, I'm an emotional eater, man, or I wasn't emotional eater.
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