04: What to do when others don't approve of your choices
Life Coaching with Christine Hassler
Christine Hassler
4.8 • 1.7K Ratings
🗓️ 28 October 2015
⏱️ 30 minutes
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Summary
If you've ever had challenges with other people in your life, especially parents, you will identify with this episode. On some level, we choose our parents to be our spiritual teachers. Being close becomes complicated as we transition from being a child to being an adult. Listen in as Jessica is feeling conflicted between wanting to live her own life and wanting her parents approval. Consider/Ask Yourself: Can you relate to wanting to please people you love? Do you feel obligated to do what your parents want from you? Do you feel guilty if you don't do what is expected of you? Jessica's Question: Jessica's conservative parents get mad, impose guilt trips and cause her stress when she talks about her boyfriend, who has a daughter. She would like insights on how to hold on to her relationship and respect her parents feelings. Jessica's Key Insights and Aha's: ● It's her time to have a relationship ● She allows her parents to emotionally manipulate her How to get over it and on with it: ● Be ok with your parents not being ok with your life ● Don't be ruled by fear ● Take a break - try a 30-day hiatus ● Be clear about what you are willing to do for relationships ● Send your parents love and light ● Take responsibility for your own inner experience Tools and Takeaways: ● Keep a picture of your loved ones and send them love and light every day ● During meditation have your higher-self speak with their higher-self ● Keep choosing love Resources: Christine Hassler @christinhassler
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Over It and On With It. I'm your host Christine Hasler and for over a decade I've been a life coach, speaker, and author. |
| 0:10.0 | Each week you'll hear me work directly with a caller as I coach them through a goal they want to accomplish or an obstacle they may be facing. |
| 0:16.0 | I'll provide a blend of practical and spiritual advice as well as tangible actions you can apply to your own life. |
| 0:22.0 | Now let's get on with the episode. |
| 0:24.0 | Hello and welcome again. As always I'm so happy to have you here. Just really want to acknowledge you for continuing to tune in to this podcast because that means you're really committed to learning and growing. And I've been on this path, well, |
| 0:44.4 | I've been aware I've been on the path. |
| 0:45.9 | I mean, we're always on the path, |
| 0:47.3 | but I've consciously been on the path |
| 0:49.8 | of personal growth, |
| 0:51.2 | probably since my early 20s when I met my first coach and if you |
| 0:55.1 | want to hear more of my story go back and listen to the introductory episode when I |
| 1:00.3 | share my over it and on with it but I must say over the decades that I've been on this |
| 1:05.7 | journey one of the things that's really made a lot easier is being a continual |
| 1:11.5 | seeker you know? |
| 1:13.0 | I never think I know everything. |
| 1:15.4 | There's no there. |
| 1:16.5 | I'm continuing to learn and to grow. |
| 1:19.4 | And I'm so glad that you're committed to the same thing, |
| 1:22.2 | because when we have a growth mindset, life is just a lot easier and transformation and change is a lot easier for willing to learn and willing to grow. |
| 1:31.0 | And just the fact that you're here and listening to this |
| 1:33.5 | podcast means that you're one of those people. So, so welcome. Welcome, welcome. |
| 1:38.3 | So today's episode, if you've ever had challenges with another person in your life, then you'll appreciate this episode. |
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