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The Mark Groves Podcast

#029: The End of Women Caretaking Men with Terry Real

The Mark Groves Podcast

Mark Groves

Society & Culture, Relationships

4.95K Ratings

🗓️ 2 June 2019

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Summary

Standing up for yourself with love. Terry Real is leading the revolution of breaking down the patriarchy one relationship at a time. He is an internationally recognized Family Therapist, Speaker and Author of four acclaimed books on relationships. Terry founded the Relational Life Institute (RLI) offering workshops for couples, individuals and parents around the country. Terry's approach is about 'Straight Talk to Difficult People', he has no time for the traditional heirarchical patraichal approach in relationships. He argues that through standing up for yourself with love, not only can relationships be saved, but society can also be transformed from patriarchy to loving equality. Episode Highlights 3 min - The gaps in traditional couple therapy approaches. 5 mins - The grandiosity and superior complex in relationship. 6 mins - Moving beyond patriarchy and traditional gender roles. 8 mins - The ‘Grey Divorce’ revolution - the end of women caretaking men. 11 mins - Men aren’t unhappy in marriage, women are. 12 mins - Connection, hierarchies and winning in relationship. 17 mins - The negating of women’s voices in couples therapy. 21 mins - The traditional and newer masculinities. 24 mins - The difference between personal empowerment and relational empowerment - breaking the back of patriarchy. Standing up for yourself with love. 27 mins - Terry's personal experience in confronting the power broker. 29 mins - The use of sex in place of connection. 42 mins - Your partners CNI - what is it and how to use it. 47 mins - We all marry our unfinished business. We are attracted to what needs to be healed. Episode Links Terry Real's Website The 20 Practices text: 202 517 2151 Terry's Books Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

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0:00.0

Hello and welcome back to another episode of the Mark Groves podcast. I am so excited to be back in your ear, jamming on

0:22.4

all things relationship. Can we just take a moment and just have a sense of gratitude for the fact

0:28.3

that we can learn these things that previously generations couldn't? I mean, that's pretty amazing.

0:33.8

Before I used to have to, I would have to get a radio contract and get a radio show and,

0:38.4

you know, there's so many less barriers to doing what you love as well. Isn't that crazy?

0:43.0

You could just start a podcast, start talking about shit you love. That's a pretty amazing world to

0:47.0

live in. So, before I get into introduction of the next, of this week's guest, too, is

0:52.9

going to blow your damn mind which was life

0:55.9

about if you're not blowing your mind right um if as always wherever you listen to this um my one

1:03.1

request just in return for creating this podcast and all the time and effort that i put into it

1:07.8

if you could just go and give this a five-star review and a written review that is so helpful

1:12.3

for me to get it into more people's ears so they can learn more about how to create amazing

1:17.4

relationships.

1:18.7

All right.

1:19.3

I mean, that's my only ask.

1:21.1

So now, this week, gosh, I was at a psychology conference a couple months ago and I had the

1:27.4

chance to go to this man's workshop for a day.

1:31.4

And my mind was blown.

1:32.4

I was like, I got to get this guy on the podcast.

1:35.0

It was such a powerful workshop.

1:36.9

And I just couldn't wait for him to share his view of the world, his heart.

1:41.9

And it's none other than Terry Real. So I don't want to delay this

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