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Life Coaching with Christine Hassler

02: Issue Based Relationships with Eileen

Life Coaching with Christine Hassler

Christine Hassler

Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.8 β€’ 1.7K Ratings

πŸ—“οΈ 22 October 2015

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

When Eileen called she said she wanted to move past the breakup of a 3-year relationship. The relationship ended abruptly and she was still searching for closure from the other person. Knowing the purpose of any relationship is for healing and growth, and not happily ever after, we worked through the issue based relationship Eileen had and what the relationship may have taught her about herself. Listen in as Eileen discovers herself in the present and works to nurture her inside reality. Consider/Ask Yourself:

Are there any unresolved hurts from previous relationships you are carrying around?

Can you see how you have drawn romantic relationships in to help fill a void?

Do you feel like you can't move forward in life because you are stuck in the past? Eileen's Question:

Eileen is ready to move on from a past relationship but doesn't know what steps to take. She also is seeking closure with the other person, she didn't feel she received when the relationship ended abruptly. Eileen's Key Insights and Aha's:

● She doesn't trust herself with making decisions

● Certain qualities eroded during her relationship

● She felt somewhat addicted to the relationship

● Her past life includes a pattern of chasing love

How to get over it and on with it:

● Recognize your soul is ready to heal past issues

● Let go of any belief that the relationship could have worked out

● Reassure your younger self there is nothing she has to do to earn love

● Never underestimate the power of doing the invisible, internal things Tools and Takeaways:

● Write a letter and start with Dear Name,

Β β—‹ I'm saying goodbye because ...

Β β—‹ I learned ...

Β β—‹ I forgive you for ...

Β β—‹ I forgive myself for ...

Β β—‹ Thank you for ...

● Write a letter to reassure your younger self

● Commit to 40 days of connection/forgiveness work

● Acknowledging your growth and your blessings Β  Resources: Christine Hassler @christinhassler

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to Over It and On With It. I'm your host Christine Hasler and for over a decade I've been a life coach, speaker, and author.

0:10.0

Each week you'll hear me work directly with a caller as I coach them through a goal they want to accomplish or an obstacle they may be facing.

0:16.0

I'll provide a blend of practical and spiritual advice as well as tangible actions you can apply to your own life.

0:22.0

Now let's get on with the episode.

0:24.0

Hello everybody. I'm so happy to have you here. I have just loved hearing from so many of you.

0:34.6

Thank you for all of your feedback and comments and questions. I just love doing this

0:39.5

so much and I thank you for tuning in to another episode and this episode has to do with

0:46.9

relationships specifically how to get over a breakup and on with your life.

0:53.1

Now I'm going to guess that most of you out there

0:54.9

have been through a breakup, and if you haven't,

0:58.3

well, you're pretty lucky, go buy a lottery ticket.

1:01.2

But you know from experience that they really can be quite painful, and

1:07.0

they can be really hard to get over. In fact, we may find ourselves months, even years, down the way after a breakup that we're still

1:16.3

not quite over it.

1:19.0

And that's because a lot of times what we haven't really done is heal the issue the relationship

1:25.4

was there to teach us. Okay so what am I talking about? Well let me back up for a

1:30.2

second. So most of us believe that the purpose of a relationship is to live

1:35.5

happily ever after. You know, go register, Creighton Burrell, get married, have a couple

1:38.8

kids, whatever that kind of forever concept is. But if we look at it from a spiritual perspective,

1:46.2

the purpose of any relationship, be it a romantic relationship, a friendship, a business relationship,

1:50.9

just relationship in general, is for healing and growth because we're all

1:55.7

mirrors for each other, you know, we're all here to teach each other things and we have many soul

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